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		<title>Russell Davies: How to be interesting</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[I don&#8217;t know Russell Davies, but you would think that he ought to have some good advice about being interesting, seeing as how he organized an entire conference called Interesting2007 &#8212; and from what I&#8217;ve read here and there, it was a smashing success (and a great name that I wish I had thought of). [...]]]></description>
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<p>I don&#8217;t know Russell Davies, but you would think that he ought to have some good advice about being interesting, seeing as how <a href="http://www.interesting2007.com/">he organized</a> an entire conference called Interesting2007 &#8212; and from what I&#8217;ve read here and there, it was a smashing success (and a great name that I wish I had thought of). And sure enough, he does have some good advice in a post entitled <a href="http://russelldavies.typepad.com/planning/2006/11/how_to_be_inter.html">How To Be Interesting</a>, and the first point is: <strong>Be interested</strong>. In other words, in order to be interesting to others, you have to be interested in things, curious about things:</p>
<blockquote><p>&#8220;Youâ€™ve got to find whatâ€™s interesting in everything, youâ€™ve got to be good at noticing things, youâ€™ve got to be good at listening. If you find people (and things) interesting, theyâ€™ll find you interesting.&#8221;</p></blockquote>
<p>The second point is related to the first: <strong>Be ready to share</strong>. Someone who doesn&#8217;t want to share their passion or knowledge with others is inherently uninteresting &#8212; except perhaps as some kind of icon or idol who is worshipped from afar. In order to be interesting on a genuinely personal level, you have to be willing to share some of your knowledge and interests with others. But as Russell notes, this doesn&#8217;t mean talking about yourself endlessly:</p>
<blockquote><p>&#8220;Being good at sharing is not the same as talking and talking and talking. It means you share your ideas, you let people play with them and youâ€™re good at talking about them without having to talk about yourself.&#8221;</p></blockquote>
<p>That&#8217;s it, really. Two steps. Lather, rinse and repeat. Russell has some handy tips on how to help stay interested in people and things &#8212; blogging regularly, keeping a journal, getting a hobby, and so on. But it really comes down to variations on those two steps.</p>
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